Fake Friend vs. Real Friend

Fake: One-dimensional. They see only their needs and is oblivious to needs of others. They often use you as a sounding board and you rarely get a word in.

Real: They are in-tune enough to sense your pain, your needs and are supportive. They are the type who listens attentively and with concern and interest. Each of you will have your time to vent and be heard. It won't be one-sided as it is with a fake friend.

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Fake: Makes fun of your imperfections, passing their words off as a joke

Real: Overlooks your imperfections and if you choose to improve yourself, they are encouraging and supportive. They may even join in.

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Fake: Will try to lead you down a destructive path

Real: Will encourage you to go down a constructive path. They will be by your side as you do.

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Fake: Asks to borrow money often and never pays you back

Real: Only asks to borrow money if it's a true need and always pays back in a prompt manner. Willing to lend you money, if need be

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Fake: Cuts you down quite frequently. You begin to wonder if they are jealous or very insecure.

Real: Builds you up and acknowledges your accomplishments, no matter how small. They are happy about good things happening to you as if they were happening to them. They aren't jealous, but encouraging.

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Fake: You feel like running from

Real: You feel like running to

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So, which one are you?